Are you in a relationship and not sure if it’s a positive move?
What sort of relationship would you like to be in?
Take the test!
| RESPECT |
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| Does your partner listen to you? |
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| Do you ask or share each other’s opinions? |
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| Do you know each other’s views about important things? |
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| Are there any signs of affection (not sexual) and kindness? |
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| Are there any put downs in public or in private? |
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| EQUALITY |
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| Do you have shared interests? What are they? |
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| Do you take turns for what you do on a date? |
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| Does one always make the decisions? |
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| Has one partner given up all previous friendships? |
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| FREEDOM |
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| Do you still go out separately with your own friends? |
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| Do you or your partner feel tied down in the relationship? |
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| Are you under pressure to continue the relationship? |
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| Could this relationship affect your life goals/career path? |
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| TRUST |
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NO
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| Do you see your partner as a friend? |
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| Would your partner tell others things you don’t want known? |
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| Have you heard stories back? |
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| Does your partner value his/her friends above you? |
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| HONESTY |
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NO
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| Are you both free to express positive and negative feelings eg. anger, affection, disappointment, happiness? |
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| Would you like your partner as a person if you weren’t going out with them? |
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| Is the depth of the relationship one-sided? |
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| Do you like the way you act whilst in this relationship? |
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